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Friendship as a Way of Life

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"One of the concessions one makes to others is not to present homosexuality as anything but a kind of immediate pleasure, of two young men meeting in the street, seducing each other with a look, grabbing each other's asses and getting each other off in a quarter of an hour. There you have a kind of neat image of homosexuality without any possibility of generating unease, and for two reasons: it responds to a reassuring canon of beauty, and it cancels everything that can be troubling in affection, tenderness, friendship, fidelity, camaraderie, and companionship, thing that our rather sanitized society can't allow a place for without fearing the formation of new alliances and the tying together of unforeseen lines of force. I think that's what makes homosexuality 'disturbing': the homosexual mode of lie, much more than the sexual act itself. To imagine a sexual act that doesn't conform to law or nature is not what disturbs people. But that individuals are beginning to love one another—there's the problem. The institution is caught in a contradiction; affective intensities traverse it which at one and the same time keep it going and shake it up. Look at the army, where love between men is ceaselessly provoked [appelé] and shamed. Institutional codes can't validate these relations with multiple intensities, variable colors, imperceptible movements and changing forms. These relations short-circuit it and introduce love where there's supposed to be only law, rule, or habit."


—Michel Foucault


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Damsreyes2040
7 hours ago

I had a close sexual relationship with my godmother  son but it all ended when we was 13 y/o.

Lululemon
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C4LEB
11 hours ago

three-dancing-slaves

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3 days ago

Stable
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Stable
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"The ethical question that was raised was not: which desires? which acts? which pleasures? but rather: with what force is one transported 'by the pleasures and desires?'"


Foucault

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skeatz89
6 days ago

syko
1 week ago

What friends are for! hehehe cool



 


 

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1 week ago

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skeatz89
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skeatz89
1 week ago

'Only connect....only connect the prose and the passion, and both will be exalted, and human love will be seen at its height. Live in fragments no longer.' E M Forster 'Howards End'.

AnthonyMichaelLZ
1 week ago

heart


yep!

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