On one side of the power exchange is domination through humiliation; the other side of the equation is total submission; not an erection between them, though.
where the pisser is turning the natural act of urination into an exhibition and the observer is given permission to associate - even elevate - the act with parasexual display (fetish), if not activity (kink).
This I can understand, but piss play as part of sexual activity eludes me.
Perhaps it's because piss play is considered to be a very taboo thing and if you're one who gets extra turned on when doing something others may perceive as naughty beyond bounds, you partake, and sensations are greatly heightened. The feelings when you get the urge to pee as soon as your housekey goes into the door lock or the instant you start pumping gas and have to reach in your pocket, fish for your dick and squeeze it to stifle that sudden pee urge, all the while making certain nobody can see what you're up to are so different then when someone asks you to pee in their mouth or up their butt. You have the urge and desire to pee, yet there is a strange feeling for several seconds that comes with knowing you're pushing the limits and not being able to let loose, yet when the flow begins the feeling is so strange, intense and pleasurable. Trying to describe that feeling to someone who has not experienced it is like trying to describe the feeling of an orgasm to someone who has never had one. For me, to be on the receiving end orally, there would have to be a special and very rare connection of chemistry between us. It boils down to, some people like the taste of parsnips, nutmeg and licorice and some of us don't. As long as everyone involved is willing and happy, that's all that matters.
So it's not a learned response or an association, it's an inate trait?
I have mild kinks (low-level bondage, giving object penetration) so I know what heightens my pleasure, but I also can surmise where they come from. I can't with piss play.
'Crossing swords' at the toilet wasn't taboo in my environment, nor pissing in public - sometimes it was something you just had to do. I've been busting to go, but felt no additional pleasure other than relief when / once I've gone.
In the video below, other than the camera operator, the subject is alone and presents as purposefully urinating in his bed by choice, and enjoying the act. Is this a parsnips or licorice decision; or is it an association in the mind with the physical? Sure, he's happy, but that's a lot of extra work he's made for himself for a single act of pleasure.
No pissing in bed or while dressed in clothes. On the very rare occasion, it's strictly an in the shower thing. I knew someone who used to like to piss himself while driving his car. Obviously, he had plastic washable upholstery, I asked him about it. That was just to over the top for me and there was no attraction to begin with. For some there is a mental satisfaction which I don't understand nor am I curious. Once up in San Francisco at Blowbuddies, a guy dressed in denim pants and tee shirt removed his shoes and socks, layed in the bathtub, which was completely open and visible for all to see. I can't count the number of guys who walked up to him, unzipped and pissed on him from head to toe, he was soaked. After each one finished peeing on him he couldn't thank them enough. There was such a sense of satisfaction to the tone of his voice and the look on his face, to this day I can't forget it.
Australia has Trough Man at the Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras.
I still don't understand the initial attraction or association of urination, an act of excretion, within a sexual context: what associates piss with sex?
Well then, you're not going to understand or get it any more than a believer in science is going to get, understand and accept the ideas that come with religion based on mythology and superstition. Maybe it's a higher level of intimacy and or trust for some. There are some who are into scat play while I'm running at top speed in the opposite direction. I don't get the attraction and I don't need to get it. In fact, I don't even feel the need to want to try and understand it. If they're happy, they're happy. That's all that matters.
I have be in to piss and piss drinking from a very early age and i still love it. Some people will see it as humiliation or maybe territorial and for some this will be true but the same could be said from a facial or swallowing cum. For me its just a part of the sexual game.Â
What's the attraction, other than the guy?
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What is 'sexual' about this? Sure, the guy is young, smooth and pretty, but how is he made more of while pissing?
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On one side of the power exchange is domination through humiliation; the other side of the equation is total submission; not an erection between them, though.
Again, public exhibitionism, parading genitals, but once the show is over what do you do with a cup of warm piss?
I can see the psycho-sexual connection in this:
where the pisser is turning the natural act of urination into an exhibition and the observer is given permission to associate - even elevate - the act with parasexual display (fetish), if not activity (kink).
This I can understand, but piss play as part of sexual activity eludes me.
Perhaps it's because piss play is considered to be a very taboo thing and if you're one who gets extra turned on when doing something others may perceive as naughty beyond bounds, you partake, and sensations are greatly heightened. The feelings when you get the urge to pee as soon as your housekey goes into the door lock or the instant you start pumping gas and have to reach in your pocket, fish for your dick and squeeze it to stifle that sudden pee urge, all the while making certain nobody can see what you're up to are so different then when someone asks you to pee in their mouth or up their butt. You have the urge and desire to pee, yet there is a strange feeling for several seconds that comes with knowing you're pushing the limits and not being able to let loose, yet when the flow begins the feeling is so strange, intense and pleasurable. Trying to describe that feeling to someone who has not experienced it is like trying to describe the feeling of an orgasm to someone who has never had one. For me, to be on the receiving end orally, there would have to be a special and very rare connection of chemistry between us. It boils down to, some people like the taste of parsnips, nutmeg and licorice and some of us don't. As long as everyone involved is willing and happy, that's all that matters.
So it's not a learned response or an association, it's an inate trait?
I have mild kinks (low-level bondage, giving object penetration) so I know what heightens my pleasure, but I also can surmise where they come from. I can't with piss play.
'Crossing swords' at the toilet wasn't taboo in my environment, nor pissing in public - sometimes it was something you just had to do. I've been busting to go, but felt no additional pleasure other than relief when / once I've gone.
In the video below, other than the camera operator, the subject is alone and presents as purposefully urinating in his bed by choice, and enjoying the act. Is this a parsnips or licorice decision; or is it an association in the mind with the physical? Sure, he's happy, but that's a lot of extra work he's made for himself for a single act of pleasure.
No pissing in bed or while dressed in clothes. On the very rare occasion, it's strictly an in the shower thing. I knew someone who used to like to piss himself while driving his car. Obviously, he had plastic washable upholstery, I asked him about it. That was just to over the top for me and there was no attraction to begin with. For some there is a mental satisfaction which I don't understand nor am I curious. Once up in San Francisco at Blowbuddies, a guy dressed in denim pants and tee shirt removed his shoes and socks, layed in the bathtub, which was completely open and visible for all to see. I can't count the number of guys who walked up to him, unzipped and pissed on him from head to toe, he was soaked. After each one finished peeing on him he couldn't thank them enough. There was such a sense of satisfaction to the tone of his voice and the look on his face, to this day I can't forget it.
Australia has Trough Man at the Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras.
I still don't understand the initial attraction or association of urination, an act of excretion, within a sexual context: what associates piss with sex?
• https://qnews.com.au/gay-icon-troughman-shares-origin-story-on-you-cant-ask-that/
"... a psycho-sexual connection" still doesn't explain the 'turn on'.
Well then, you're not going to understand or get it any more than a believer in science is going to get, understand and accept the ideas that come with religion based on mythology and superstition. Maybe it's a higher level of intimacy and or trust for some. There are some who are into scat play while I'm running at top speed in the opposite direction. I don't get the attraction and I don't need to get it. In fact, I don't even feel the need to want to try and understand it. If they're happy, they're happy. That's all that matters.
"Maybe it's a higher level of intimacy and or trust for some."
That's a start, so maybe there is an explanation I could understand. (I don't do 'faith' or 'belief', I do rational associations.)
I have be in to piss and piss drinking from a very early age and i still love it. Some people will see it as humiliation or maybe territorial and for some this will be true but the same could be said from a facial or swallowing cum. For me its just a part of the sexual game.Â
What's the fascination?
What is the basis of the piss kink?
How is it sexual? (Is it sexual?)
Is pissing on someone for humiliation? Is it territorial?
What are the desires behind wanting to be pissed on?
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