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If you can't figure it our, my Name is Charlie. Right now I am getting ready to go to college. I just graduated high school with a 4.0 GPA. My parents divorced and currently hate each other. I've lived with my Grandparents since I was 9.Me and two of my best friends have rented this house in Tempe Arizona. I am 5' 11" 147 lbs tanned and toned, with a little bit of body hair. I don't shave my face but once every week. As I am part Navajo I don't think I will ever develop much body hair. Now the question you are all waiting for is , what about my dick? I am happy to say I have one and it works perfectly. He is my best friend! I got pubes and realized that he was for more than just pissing and it was off to the races. I am uncut, which is a great help because I "beat the bone" many times in a day. I think I am gay. My best friends in High School were Ryan and Codi who let me explore sex with them since freshman year. You must understand being gay in the Navajo nation is difficult to say the best. So I am in a situation where if I am asked directly I will say, I don't know if I am gay or not I've been with both sexes and enjoyed it each time. Truly if I am asked I'll say its none of their fucking business! Unless the person asking is cute and I want to fuck he she or it. I like to top and bottom. I like bareback because my fellow sex enthusiasts in high school never seemed to have condoms but always had hard ons. Up till now I use Vaseline as my lube of choice. Now that I am not living with my grandparents I plan to go to several of the sex shops in the valley and try different things. Ryan and Codi are encouraging me to get different lube any suggestions? Well thats my story and Im sticking to it! Hope I didn't bore you too much. If anyone wants I will be happy to write about my experiences. I am hoping this site will give me the option to talk about experiences good or bad and get advice. Around here I play a straight boy all the way.
thanks for your time, your New Friend Charlie. Â
Go with a thin silicon lube. It won't dry out at just the wrong/right moment like water based lubes. As far as whether you are gay or not, it's not as black or white as many think it is. Several years ago someone on this site from The UK said humans are not gay, bi, or straight, humans are sexual beings. I believe that because the chemistry with each individual you may be intimate with is so different. You're younger in a different day and age then when a lot of us were exploring our sexual orientation and just about everything that wasn't straight as an arrow was taboo. Explore and discover your feelings with willing partners and just be and enjoy yourself.
No, "Pan" doesn't mean fucking animals. It's short for 'pansexual'. It's one of the sexual orientations. There are traditionally 4 sexual orientations, but it depends on who you ask, as there are dozens of different meanings of sexual orientations by different people. Here are the main 4 (plus pan):
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hetero(sexual) - exclusively sexually attracted to the opposite sex
homo(sexual) - exclusively sexually attracted to the same sex
bi(sexual) - sexually attracted to both the same sex and the opposite sex
pan(sexual) - sexually attracted to people regardless of their sex or gender. Often grouped together with bisexuality. Â
a(sexual) - not sexually attracted to any sex or gender.
Thank you! That helps a lot
Spunk lube hybrid is the best lube I've found, doesn't dry sticky and isn't messy. Have used it for well over a decade. Makes no mess to clean up afterwards. No smell. If you're like me and can't stand sticky hands and sticky dick, and also don't want to immediately jump up and into the shower after cumming, it's perfect. It dries to nothing, no residue or anything, I can just beat it or have sex and then wipe up with a dry towel and relax. In rough times I was able to water it down a little (with water) and have it last longer. This lube even looks like cum lol. Works perfectly with my fleshjack/fleshlight. Originally named Str8camlube because Jeff, the guy that developed it, had a camshow and went by str8jock (camshow str8cam). Before it got big and had the name change and went national, he was going to use one of my designs for the bottle. He sent a free sample pack and I have been so happy since. I never found a lube I liked before, looked for years, spent so much buying so many different kinds.
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Ill look for some, thanks. My outing to Zorba's last night was a bust. You have to be 21 to enter, I look 16 even though I am 18. All the dudes in the lot kept looking at me like I was a raw steak! Got kind of creeped out and left. We did go to this burger joint and grabbed some food went home and got naked doing our very best to burn off the pent up sex energy we had developed.
Hey, Charlie - I hope you have the friends and support you need as you continue to sort yourself out. As an old Bi guy, from my experience, I would remain open to what feels right for you and who it feels right WITH. I love dick but if pussy was not meant to be eaten it would not look so much like a taco!Â
You are young and clearly hot at the most FLUID time in history. Now more than ever men are free to explore without requiring a label -- including one that reads 'contents under pressure'.
Now I want to see the dramatic recreation of your times with Ryan and Codi! I envy the freedom you experienced in high school. When I was growing up in the 70s such 'experimentation' could easily have ended in literal DEATH. Not kidding. I work with students your age - they are all so fluid I practically need a sponge! Nobody is requiring you to choose a team - lay -- I mean PLAY the field! Â
As for lube, I like Boy Butter for fucking and jerking - it comes (no pun intended) in various formula consistencies and containers. I like the tube and the tub packaging; with the tub container, I can leave the lid off at the bedside and if I want more lube, I can quickly stick my fingers in it (so to speak) without fussing with lids or caps.
Highly recommend.  https://www.boybutter.com/
No fucking animals Charlie. At least I don't and I wouldn't recommend it!
I agree, now I do like a bit of a hairy butt but without a tail!
Why do you have to choose? Â Â Everyone's bisexual whether they realize it or not...or admit to it.
I believe that is a true statement. In that type of thinking, "why does it matter to anyone ."
Is sex like a college major that you have to declare? The Navajo nation is run by a lot of old men who seem to want to control everything. I moved off the Rez so I can live my life without looking over my shoulder.
Good luck, personally I use KY or a Mint Lube which is cold when used, I too do not wear condoms but then again I know the people I am sleeping with, just be careful. The world is your oyster, make the most of it. Rory in Scotland.
No suggestions for lube but you’re absolutely right your sexual orientation is nobody’s business but your own. Of course, people may be curious if they’re attracted to you so that may be why  they ask. You don’t owe anyone an answer if you don’t want to, but maybe try looking into other sexual orientations, too, in order to find one that fits and feels right to you. Maybe you’re bi, or maybe you’re pan, or maybe you’re straight but horny and open minded! There’s a whole universe of possibilities to discover!
"Pan" you mean that guy from all the myths with the goat legs? Does that mean fucking animals?
Haha pansexual means open to all genders, like panoramic is a wide picture pansexual is wide opportunities.
Pan is that goat/man thing but I stick to strictly humans.