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I fell in love with a boy and I've been with him for a year and Ben wanted to propose to him for a long time but it's funny now it's hard and we've been in and out of a relationship and finding out he's a hardcore Henry on that it like I do love him so with all my heart but it seems like everyday is a struggle with him because he can't get off the drug he overdosed 4 times already don't let time he died in my arms and I had to call the ambulance you got to the point that he's so far going on a drug that I don't know what to do anymore like I love them with all my heart he steals from everybody Stanley don't know what to do with him no more he steals from me like I know he don't mean it or do anything harmful he's just so f***** up on a drug been going in and out of jail and start prostituting and selling his body and we fight see about having sex he have people give him money for sex but he can't even have sex with me and I've been with him for a year like I'm trying so hard I don't know if I should just give up or stay with him until he gets better I don't know what I should do
wow i was so sorry to hear all the heartless people saying to give up on him however i am sorry if u love him like u claim u do then stand by his side to make sure that he knows that u do love him and that u aren't going anywhere and about ur money just try to lock it up or something use plastic and don't tell the pin lol some drugs are just so hard to let go. although mine was weed and coke :) :) i was able to stop without a problem my worst is smoking even thou i didn't have one in 5 months when i got out i wanted one really bad. i am very happy that my friends stuck by me that is for sure otherwise i might not have been bonded out nor had a place to however i did cause my friends love me. heck one of was my x and i was with him over 15 years and well still are friends with him now for like 38 years and another one who is 28 is also my x and he still stands by me. heck i live with 2 of my x's lol
4 Times an OD.....TAKE YOUR OWN BRAINS BACK AGAING TAKE YOUR OWN LIFE AND GO ON.....AND NEVER LOOK BACK....that the way it is....or die with him
BARNEY10
Get out while you can and start a new life before he drags you down in the bad place
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Dude, Been there, done that. You need to roll and quick. I know how this crap ends. There are no emotions toward you. He only has strict animal need for that shit. I hate watching caring people get the crap end of the stick, but you have to take the initiative now. Please do it.
Its strange that i haven't seen this advice yet, but here is mine: Seek professional help. It might sounds odd because you're not the one messing up their life right? But you are both on the road to self-destruction.
Just leaving him would be best, but that is hard to do especially when your heart is committed to that person. In order to deal with this correctly you need help. Talk to your doctor about this. They can point you in the right direction and provide you with the correct help that you require.
Seek help.
this will be a hard thing to do i sugest you leave him now it is like loseing family
it will take time to over come if he has been in jaij and has not reformed i sugest
he will never reform so let him go you can pm me if youlike to chat further
the drugs are destroying him he is not anymore himself.. so to be save for yourself you have to let him go because he is not the person anymore you met, he needs help before you need help ... he was not there for ya, you where there for him its hard but it is drugs made into it, its no you to blame or even him, but it's done . he needs a caretaking institution and not you sorry .other wise it is going to eat you from the inside and break you up, and when he is heald and see whom the real one was . he finds you as a wreck. don't do it. wait and see ...in time it will be told. hard but had some same experience ... I am taken distance now not drugs but every other is better he thinks ok. do what ya think, I do now ,he finds out who fought for him at a time .. .... good luck take care you can only take care about someone else if you take care about yourself ..
It took me 4 years. We fought his drug addiction together. NEVER give up on him.
this is like reading a Kerouac book ( he rarely used punctuation marks either ) but I agree with most..get away from him fast and live your life.
Sometimes you have to leave someone you love. Or they can destroy you to the point you may die. If you get accidentally overdosed or killed, they would still wound up alone. Repeating the same things over and over but expect a change... that is what crazy is. I had a similar happen with one of my ex's. I had to abandon him as he was doing way too much drugs, giving him seizures and risking his life. Then he tried to dose me with it... He loved the drugs, but not me... So, I knew we're not in love. I loved him but, the most we could be from that point was friends. Sometimes you have to kick them out of your life for them to grow up and change. Luckily my ex is now off the drugs and in love with another. This does make me happy after all this time - he cleaned up.
so if you keep taking him back why are you here asking for advice on what to do,seems your mind is already made up.He cant come back into your life if you don't allow him too.
I tried to move on and to dump him but he always finds a way to get back in my life and it's hard because my heart is telling me something but my head is telling me something else like you still can get hard but it seems like you really don't have no sex drive whatsoever the only time he really does have a sex drive is when he selling himself to people for money for he can get the drug
You can't help some one recover if they don't want too.If he doesn't want to get better he wont regardless of weather he can get an erection.Some times you need to take care of your self over others
My advice would be to dump him or else your life will be one long misery; plenty more boys in the sea with a job, folding stuff in their pocket, an automobile, aspirations.
Just out of interest.... can he still get a hard-on? have the drugs castrated him yet? (they do, you know)