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Whenever we meet guys or girls, who are in a long relationship ( a monogynous one ), we hear them say it was love at first sight, babe's that aint the truth, it is true we fall in love with the person with whom we are for a long time.

The thing that isnt told to us or isnt mentioned in those what to do list in relationship is that, being in a relationship is super hard especially if you are homo's, why ?  Simple, many a time we must accommodate with our lover, and that is true, life is about adjusting at ever turn, so when someone say's it was love at first sight, babe that was lust as first sight, love is a flower, two people sow a seed together, both give it their time, and if it's strong it last the test of times, if not, back to the dating app. 

If two guys ( sadly the author lacks any experience with the opposite sex, I am sorry for that ) are together, it always happens, doubt remains, because one random day the guy can say, "if you dont like this, leave me", thus shifting the onus on to the other person, who would think if a long dry spell befall on him, that I made a mistake in leaving him. The worst would be seeing the guy whom you would say, "I love you", on a dating app with the line, " with place # want sex# NPNR# No Pure Tops wanted