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Attracted to someone close
This is a serious I want to discuss with you guys. Please give your honest advice/opinion on this, I need it please.
I'm attracted to someone very close to me. My brother. I don't know why I feel attracted to him. He's good looking and everything, but there's more to it. I think he's bisexual, I'm not sure exactly. Should I tell him how I feel? Or will he think I'm some kind of sick freak?
As your brother you should be able to tell him anything, he may already suspect how you feel about him. If he doesn't and you tell him how you feel you accept the resposability of possibly damaging your brotherly relationship with him if not and he decides he feels the same towards you and wants to take your relationship and feelings to the next level of see, it may damage your relationship as brothers. Certainly tell him don't keep secrets but be cautious. I had the exact situation with my brother, he was 30 and I was 50 neither one of us ever married.
I made the mistake one Christmas while we both had been drinking, I wanted him to watch me jerk off and cum so I jerked off infront of him and said wanna watch me cum. He turned and looked away as I squirter my load. Since that night we never spend time together and we rarely talk. I feel I crossed the line and offended him.
If he is actively bi-sexual and happy with being so it would probably do no harm but if he struggles with the gay side of his sexuality and you were to be the one to cause him to cross the line then it could be a disaster for your future relationship if he afterwards regretted having experimented with you as he well might.
is it an attraction of sex or one of passion. doubtful a relationship between brothers can work long-term, but if he is bisexual he may have an interest in playing. but i doubt long term. would that be enough to satisfy you?
This is very risky. If you approach him and he is clearly not interested, it might drive a wedge between brothers that lasts a lifetime.
Brothers do heaps of shit with eachother but it usually starts when they are younger and less inhibited or conflicted by the rules dictated by society or religion. But no judgement here.
That is a tricky one, I agree. You know him better than anyone else. What do you think his reaction will be?