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Big Decision

SmoothSeduction Blog Last Activity 8 years ago 409 views 7 comments

Lol it occurs to me I should participate more. I just passed my 1700th day of membership. A lot has changed in those 5 years. Came out, earned a college degree, and found an amazing boyfriend. We've been dating over 2 years and we live together. I think I want to ask him to marry me. It's a big decision. What do you all think? I love him and I am not getting any younger.  

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Davey1965
Davey1965
8 years ago

Go for it if you love him.. Too many lonely guys out there or guys looking over the fence when real love is right on there doorstep 

8 years ago

SEAL THE DEAL BRO IT JUST GETS BETTER

guynflint
guynflint
8 years ago

sounds perfect now. kinda like what i had for 15yrs. we just changed. it happens.. take each day as it comes and cherish them for what they bring. it can all vanish in a heart beat. cheers..wishing you two all the best.
:-)

SmoothSeduction
SmoothSeduction
8 years ago

We've discussed it. And we agreed there's no particular rush, not as if I can get him pregnant after all. Or rather in our relationship, he would be the one getting me pregnant ;-). It seems like he wants to get married but he's not in any hurry. I am not either so I don't plan on going out and buying a ring today or anything. I need time to do some deep thinking and confirm this is what I really want. I've been faithful (so has he, to my knowledge and I have zero reason to suspect otherwise) and we have been monogamous,so no threesomes or open relationship or anything like that. Yeah, we fight but never anything that got too serious. Nine times out of ten, we are able to talk through our differences and come to a compromise. I'm a little bit of a militant atheist and lean pretty far toward the Libertarian side whereas he's more of a spiritually agnostic democratic socialist. So there is some interesting dinner table talk to be sure and I don'r get on my soap box about the evils of religion as much as I used to. We both have good paying jobs and we have already made it though a year of living together with very few issues. Lol, we certainly spend our free time like a married couple. Shopping, NetFlix, take-out and a glass of wine is considered a fun night. It's much better than being dragged to the club 3 nights a week, six hours a night, to which I was subjected by my ex. So, all in all my heart and my head is telling me to go for it. Right now, it is hard to imagine my life without him. I wish he weren't at work right now so I could cuddle up close to him and tell him I love him more than anything. Because, well, I do. -B-

RobbietheRobot
RobbietheRobot
8 years ago

What is ur heart, and his, telling U?

8 years ago

I say go for it

8 years ago

happy 1700 days!! it is your decision to make, and yours alone. and pray he feels the same way.