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Discovering my Gay side and relationships with other Boys...

JerryB86 Blog Last Activity 10 years ago 715 views 9 comments
<p>Ok, so I could use some help here...</p>
<p>I'm 27, just moved to San Francisco from a little conservative town in SoCal and have recently started messing around with other guys. I identify myself as Bisexual, but have not fully come out yet to Friends and Family. I told a few really good friends but thats about it. I have always been attracted to both girls and boys at a young age but never attacted on my feelings when I was young, which I deeply regret. Basically I realized that I will not be getting any younger and need to take full advantage of the youth that I still have left.

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ZanyZander
10 years ago

Whatever the "Castro" is sound horrible. Any chance mean communists reside there?! With that said I personally think everyone's bisexual whether they realize it or not. So I've certainly beaten around the bush with that statement amongst some people before.

10 years ago

Thanks for your kind post, Jerry ... have a great time in SF, hope the new start and new job works out. Just post or get in touch whenever you want to chat or ask advice xxxx Christopher

JerryB86
10 years ago

Thank you guys for all the thoughtful post. I apologize I didn't reply earlier, I just started a new Job and bee super busy. I hear what you all are saying. I am trying to take it slow but Im so damn horny all the time. I haven't really checked out the Castro yet, Its still all new to me and I don't really feel up to it yet. Plus I would have to go by myself and I don't want to get taken advantage of. I always play safe, so no worries there, although I do worry about oral and kissing guys, its always a gamble I guess. Oh @ tolead, seriously I have already noticed that some gays are a bit biphobic, but whatever I kinda like the straight acting ones so they don't seem to mind. Thanks again for the post guys, it makes me feel good to know i have a place to share my feelings ;D

n8urboy
10 years ago

Each of us has our own path to follow, and we can't change the past. Look on your 27 years as a time of maturing so you can make decisions in your life that are more informed now than they would've been had you been able to act upon them when you were younger. Just the act of verbalizing your concerns here shows that you're not the same person you were 10 years ago. Continue to grow and mature, live, learn, love, and be happy.

10 years ago

Little I can add to the thoughts already shared. Be cautious, be safe and have fun. SF can be a bit overwhelming on the gay side. And, to be honest, there is a bit of biphobia within the gay community and a lack of understanding and appreciation of bisexuality. Have fun. And as others below have said, if you have question or concerns, there is a community here willing to support you and try to be of assistance. Thomas

10 years ago

Czech out the Castro.

10 years ago

Hi Jerry - and welcome to GBT ... this is just to second what @phallussy and @TheBurrhead said below ... you've come to exactly the right place ... you'll find that this is a thriving community of wonderful people of all ages ... where age makes no difference ... we're not interested in how old you are, we're interested in you as a person ... so as well as enjoying the porn, drop in to see us, chat, post comments on the many different blogs ... and if you want advice, someone to confide in, then I or any of the others are just a private message away ... gros bisous à toi, mon ami xxxx

10 years ago

WELCOME TO GBT Jerry!! You've come to the right place. You have put yourself on the right path......there's no time like the present to get your life back on track. Just take it a day at a time and don't try to make up for lost time too quickly....and like Burrhead said....safe sex always. You will find that our GBT community is unlike any other....with LOTS of caring, friendly, and supportive guys of all ages that you can go to for support and advise. You will make some special friendships here. Have fun! :Dennis

TheBurrhead
10 years ago

enjoy and pursue what you feel. I always thought bisexuals were the luckiest of all....they have twice as many to choose from. hehe. just be you and go for it, and always safe sex- brillo