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Are there on this site more men, who have problems with feminine looking boys? My boyfriend is often arguing about my looks. Kissing and masturbating each other is ok for him, but he doesn't want intercourse with me.

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scotty96
scotty96
11 years ago

im sort of feminine acting sometime (i dont try to be, i just am sometimes i guess). my boyfriend doesnt care, but at first he didnt want to be seen much in public as being my friend because hes not out, and im guessing that he was thinking that if anybody saw that he was my friend they would think hes gay. hes still not out but he doesnt care much about that anymore, like about what ppl will think. i hope your bf gets over the feminine thing and just loves you.

11 years ago

Good blog...I'm not an expert...to me the contribution is important...we shall learn from each over...cope with our good and and bad sides ...mix behaviour....especially the bad habits...which we ca'nt get rid of...but some way our bad habits ...have positive sides...the thing is we are inable to take control...be careful...be aware...of pythons...rattle snakes...and any snake which has a double tongue....even a rat is curious...hmmmm..???

senip
senip
11 years ago

If he is your'e boyfriend and really loves you then he shouldn't worry about how you look or how you are . Surely that's what this site is all about , we are all different , so i would question his motives . Sure we all have our different tastes , but something drew him to you in the first place.

swiftjohn
swiftjohn
11 years ago

Get a new boyfriend. You are perfect just the way are and don't try to be anything that you are not. Lots of gay guys prefer femme looks. It's not difficult to find someone who does. Just put yourself out there where the gay guys are and I guarantee they will come to you. Don't judge yourself by the opinion of your current boyfriend. He's obviously wrong for for you. There is someone out there who is perfect for you. Just get out there and find him.

11 years ago

everyone is unique, so not to judge girly guys. for some reason you are interested in him, but is mutual masturbation going to sustain a relationship? do you do oral? im aware that some gays do not practice intercourse, just oral and playing. to each his own.

11 years ago

Hi Jann, I love girly teens... you are with the wrong guy I am sorry to say, good luck in finding the right guy who appreciates the whole you as you are. xx

11 years ago

Jann, you need to drop him. If he can't appreciate you for who you are, then why even bother? Besides, the genders are becoming less and less distinct. Look around: you have girls wearing guy clothes and guys wearing girl clothes; more colors becoming androgynous. Regardless, he knew this information about you the moment he saw you, so why have a relationship with you? It sounds as if he is using you as an end to a means. Good luck, kiddo!

11 years ago

Doesnt matter if feminine or not, its what you feel in your heart about someone. I f you ever need to chat or need support I am here for you, giving you warmth from scotland

mlant
mlant
11 years ago

Wouldn't matter if he's feminine looking, what matters is who you are on the inside that counts. To me everyone is beautiful.

11 years ago

Hmmm...well I'm the bisex type...nothing particular..every human has its individuality...on the long run it depends on how the person appeals to me...male or female...no matter...hehe

Davey1965
Davey1965
11 years ago

Theres lots of guys that like feminine boys and its sounds like yr partner isnt sure about what he likes. I would find a guy that wants to have sex with you because it sounds like this is really what you want in a Relationship. And then youll be Hapy and feel loved.

anusinterruptus
anusinterruptus
11 years ago

I agree with hardtop4boi. If your boyfriend is upset by the way you look, then why is he your boyfriend? It's WHO you are that matters most, even if you act fem. It is something that I would not have a problem with, because I'm not that shallow - take people for who they really are inside. As long as you have all the lovely "boys bits", that's all that matters lol.

steesbratt
steesbratt
11 years ago

No I find it a huge turn on I like guys that are feminine

11 years ago

Everything feminine is a huge turn off for me, so yes I would be the same. are you happy with your bf?